It’s true that not all the times you will be in the bed of roses. There are lots of trials will come along the way as long as the two of you lived.
Marriage bonds a lot of responsibilities. Both of you must have to give and take. Both of you must have to build a scaffold of your life. Both of you are the actor and actress in meeting the demands of time. One should take part on the other. It takes two to tango.
This is what we called PARTNERSHIP.
I wonder why that some minor individuals is rushing to have pre- marital sex and ended without marriage or being single parent. Their life will be miserable, since they are too young and did not have enough insights on what is going to happen next. However, their winning prize would be a trophy that they could be proud of. This trophy must lead her/him in the blaze of glory or tantrums of their heads.
As of now, I and my husband are still on the stage of adjustments. A lot of conflicts have been confronted. But the good thing is, we manage to compromise. Compromising is a very effective way to make the relationship healthy. Healthy in a sense that, it makes you awaken that you are already hitting him/her below the belt, or able you to recognize your strength and weaknesses although, it needs a lot of courage to compromise with each other.
Communication is vital in a relationship. I fully understand now that having an attitude of not uttering words if you were being asked in not helpful in making relationship steady. Thus, it worsens the situation. However, it would be also a good strategy if you will not talk when you are in fire since it will blow you up. Treat yourself as a coolant since your partner is in ignition.
Well, as of now, we are still exploring on what can do and how far we can do things.
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